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Miriam Green
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A Beautiful Morning
I finally saw Mom this week. It was such a pleasure to see her happy and smiling. She talked a mile a minute for about twenty minutes....
Miriam Green
Dec 30, 20203 min read
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Thanks
We have the ability to look at a bleak situation and still find something to be thankful for.
Miriam Green
Nov 25, 20204 min read
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Hands Off
Now that my dad is over his cold, we’ve scheduled a visit at week’s end for him to see Mom. She continues to have periods of extreme...
Miriam Green
Nov 18, 20203 min read
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The Red Zone
Round two of worries to contend with. Two residents at Mom’s care facility have been taken to hospital after contracting COVID-19; four...
Miriam Green
Sep 2, 20203 min read
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The Gift of Giving
I don’t know if it’s only the pandemic that is making my emotions ride the big roller coasters—taking me up and down on the ride of my...
Miriam Green
Aug 19, 20204 min read
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Dislocation
We were gifted a rare interaction with Mom this week. When we called to video conference, Mom was alert and communicative. Though she...
Miriam Green
Jul 29, 20203 min read
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Visitation
The terms of visitation sound like they’re straight out of a horror movie.
Miriam Green
May 13, 20203 min read
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Conversation in the Time of Corona
We are no longer surprised by her absence—we know she cannot be home with us—but we miss her nonetheless.
Miriam Green
Apr 1, 20203 min read
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Opening Virtual Windows
It’s important to put our Corona pandemic into perspective. We are not being persecuted. We have enough food.
Miriam Green
Mar 25, 20203 min read
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Oatmeal Corona Muffins
If I try and look at the positives, I can find them.
Miriam Green
Mar 18, 20203 min read
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Alzheimer's and Corona
The combination of age and close living quarters in geriatric facilities creates opportunity for the virus to spread.
Miriam Green
Mar 11, 20203 min read
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Lessons From My Cat
Moving my cat Zipper reminded me how someone with Alzheimer’s might react to a planned upheaval.
Miriam Green
Feb 26, 20205 min read
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Leaving Home
Mom is no longer in our orbit of care. Neither I nor my father—who still visits her everyday—can know what befalls her during her day.
Miriam Green
Jan 15, 20204 min read
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You Can't Go Home Again
I spent an emotional day in the Israeli coastal town of Netanya on Sunday, reading from my book, The Lost Kitchen, and talking to my...
Miriam Green
Sep 4, 20194 min read
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Love
My mom seemed sluggish today during our visit: eyes half closed, a slurring of words. “I used to love you,” she said, part of her almost...
Miriam Green
Jul 10, 20193 min read
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Stasis
Sometimes, standing still is a good thing. Mom seems to be in a holding pattern in her new Alzheimer’s ward. She exhibits a wide range of...
Miriam Green
Dec 26, 20184 min read
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Downward Staircase
My brother Simon is arriving this Friday for a two-week visit! I am so excited to see him, and also a little trepidatious—he has not seen...
Miriam Green
Aug 22, 20183 min read
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A Movable Feast
This is what I tell myself: Don’t get upset, it’s not worth it. This is just Mom’s way. If you are frustrated, don’t let her know it. If...
Miriam Green
Jul 4, 20184 min read
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Home
It happened as I knew it would. The second day into my two-week trip abroad, Mom was moved into a closed Alzheimer’s ward. Despite being...
Miriam Green
Jun 6, 20184 min read
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A Walk to Remember
I was proud of myself today for bringing Mom home from the mall with absolutely no displays of anger. It was an intense effort to be with...
Miriam Green
Feb 14, 20183 min read
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